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Solo Travel: The Ultimate Guide for First-Time Adventurers

Thinking about taking a solo trip, but not sure where to start? I know – it can feel overwhelming at first. But with the right tips and mindset, solo travel can be one of the most exciting things you ever do. Whether you’re a first-timer or just want to travel smarter, here’s my complete guide packed with practical advice and lessons learned from real experiences.

 

(Missed the story that inspired this guide? Read Part 1 here: “A Solo Travel Story from Southeast Asia“)

Curate Your Own Experience

So, let’s say you’ve followed my earlier budget tips on how to plan a trip on a budget, and you’ve decided where you’re going. But what next?

 

Find the Best Area to Stay

These days, travellers share tons of tips and reviews online. Start by simply searching “things to do in [Destination]” on Google or YouTube. It’ll give you a sense of the top attractions and the best areas to base yourself.

 

Attractions and Itinerary

Consider what you want to see and do, then look for accommodation nearby. It sounds obvious, but you’d be surprised how many people book cheap stays without checking the location – only to find themselves based in the middle of nowhere.

 

That’s fine if you only want to stay on the resort, but location is everything if you’re planning to explore beyond it.

What’s Within Walking Distance?

Finding the right accommodation base is essential for a manageable budget without lots of hidden costs. Your base affects your budget more than you might think. Solo taxi rides can get expensive quickly, and as a solo female traveller, I avoid them at night where possible.

 

TripAdvisor and Booking.com show what’s within walking distance from a hotel or rental. Food is always my first priority (let’s be real!), so I make sure there are decent options nearby. TripAdvisor is my favourite for this as their list is the most extensive at a glance. Local vicinity information is usually towards the end of the search page, entitled ‘Hotel/Property Surroundings’. For example:

Compare Reviews

Once you’ve narrowed down your top three (from the 100 tabs you’ve opened!), compare reviews. I usually check across Booking.com, Google, Agoda and TripAdvisor.

 

Hotels can be a great choice for solo travellers – they offer a social vibe, a bar or restaurant for evening meals and solo-friendly activities. Some Airbnb’s do have great hosts – local people who would love to show you around – but be sure to find that feedback in the reviews instead of just wishful thinking!

Staying Connected

Phone Data

Phone data is essential when you’re solo. Whether it’s for maps, making reservations, ordering Ubers or checking what’s nearby, staying connected takes the pressure off.

 

Buy a local SIM or eSIM at the airport when you arrive. The staff team will help set it up, and you can always top up at local spots later – I often top up the minimum amount just to activate it for the first few days.

 

You can check if your phone supports eSIMs under settings. Some companies offer international eSIM services, but I prefer local providers for stronger and more reliable coverage.

 

Bank Cards

Avoid transaction fees by using a travel-friendly bank. I personally use Starling due to no hidden fees and unlimited free ATM withdrawals. Other great options include Monzo and Revolut.

Handy Items to Pack

Medicine & Bug Repellent

Pack painkillers, cold & flu meds, stomach relief, antibacterial hand wipes and hand gel. Add insect repellent, bite cream, and malaria tablets if needed.

 

I once bought bite cream on the island of Koh Samui (Thailand) and was shocked at the price! Local prices in your home country will be significantly better than import prices abroad.

 

Mini First-Aid Kit

If you’re clumsy (like me), bring a handful of plasters, bandages or knee support, especially if you’re hiking.

 

Discreet Bag

Small cross-body or belt bags are ideal for walks or excursions. These bags are more secure, lightweight and discreet – they help you avoid the panic of misplacing your valuables and draw less attention.

 

Portable Phone Charger

A no-brainer! Choose a compact one that easily fits in your day bag.

Hand Luggage Essentials

Pack a spare set of underwear and spare outfit (like a summer dress or a top and shorts) in your hand luggage – if you can!

 

On my first solo trip at 18, my suitcase was lost for three days. Luckily, I was attending a course abroad and several other students on the same flight had the same issue. Our Course Lead took us straight from the airport to the supermarket to grab underwear and essentials. Ever since, I never travel without backup in my carry on.

Payments & Valuables

Bring a spare bank card and photo ID (such as a driving licence). Keep your primary travel card on you, and the other locked in your hotel. Apps like Google Pay can be unreliable when travelling, especially in areas with weak connectivity – so don’t rely on it as your only payment method. I also bring a little cash to change to local currency on arrival – just incase I need to use it immediately.

 

Also bring a padlock for your suitcase or valuables – not all safes work!

Safety First

Social Safety

When meeting new people, it’s easy to get caught up in the moment, but keep your drink count low if you drink alcohol. Also avoid unfamiliar local spirits – they could upset your stomach and, in some cases, cause serious illness and fatality.

 

When people ask where you’re staying, “nearby” is a perfectly good answer.

 

Stay in Touch with Home

Share your itinerary and updates with family or friends – I usually send a group family email while waiting at the airport.

 

I also post on social media after I’ve left a place, not while I’m there. Prioritise your safety.

Attitude & Adaptability

Attitude makes a big difference. We live in a big world, and we’re not at the centre of it! Be adaptable, curious and open-minded to the differences you encounter. While it’s important to honour your own boundaries, approaching other cultures and traditions with humility can offer powerful lessons and expand your perspective – if you’re willing to listen and learn.

 

Learn a few words in the local language – “hello”, “please” and “thank you” go a long way. Local people appreciate visitors who respect their culture, not impose their own. They are more likely to let their guard down when they’re met with a friendly face – not an impatient foreigner expecting things to be done their way. Showing respect and adaptability is a simple yet powerful way to be welcomed into a new community.

Bonus Round: Extended Travel

Planning a multi-country trip? Here are some extra things to consider:

Get Acquainted with New Airlines

Using search engines like Skyscanner will help to discover local airlines. You may not recognise their names, so check reviews on Google, TripAdvisor and YouTube to inform your choice.

 

Flight Connections

Leave at least 3 hours between international connecting flights unless you’re flying with the same airline (who will transfer your luggage). For example, I flew from London to Thailand with Emirates and had a 1.5-hour layover in Dubai. My baggage was transferred smoothly – only because it was a transit flight through the same airline.

 

Try to print your flight and accommodation itinerary before leaving home. Some countries require proof of onward travel – this makes it quicker to explain. I remember waiting to meet a friend in the Philippines, while she flew in from Cambodia. A seasoned backpacker, she was held up at the airline desk because she hadn’t booked her onward flight from the Philippines – and they wouldn’t let her check in without it. She quickly booked her departing flight and boarded the plane on time, but if that were me? I would have been stressed!

 

Expect Delays

Flights can get delayed for the most random reasons. A friend of mine had to wait hours for a new plane tyre to be flown in from another country! So bring books, music, notepads, films – anything to keep you entertained – incase you have to wait.

Luggage & Laundry

After travelling through four countries by land, air and sea, my best advice is simple: pack light. I usually travel with older clothes and leave some behind as gifts or donations.

 

Bring a tube of detergent to wash clothes or swimwear on the go, such as Dr Beckmann Travel Wash Liquid. There are laundrette services almost everywhere, or use facilities within a villa stay or hotel services when needed.

 

You’ll likely shop along the way, so packing light and freeing up space is smart. On one trip, I left with 17kg checked baggage and returned weeks later with 15kg! It was metaphorical to let go of old items and purchase something new, whilst returning lighter physically and mentally!

In Closing

I hope this guide has made solo travel feel a little more possible, and a lot more exciting. Whether you’re off on a weekend escape or a multi-country adventure, remember confidence comes with preparation, curiosity and just a little courage.

 

I have been asked about solo travel for years, but if you have questions I didn’t cover, feel free to reach out on my socials – I’d love to help.

 

Safe travels and enjoy every moment. 💛

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A Solo Travel Story from Southeast Asia

We smiled at each other as we admired the Reclining Buddha.

A magnificent sight – and a busy one too! Groups of tourists bustled up and down the attraction, strolled around the temple grounds, and snapped pictures wherever they could.

 

I noticed a group of girls struggling to take a photo and offered to help.

 

“Would you like me to take that for you?”“Yes please! Thank you so much,” they smiled – a young group of American women, probably in their early twenties.

 

I took a few shots, changing the angles of course, and passed the phone back.

 

“Oh my gosh, I love it!” the leader exclaimed. Then she asked thoughtfully, “Would you like me to take one of you?”


“Yes please! I’m here alone… it’s hard to get pictures along the way. I appreciate it.”

 

Their mouths dropped almost in unison. A chorus of shocked responses followed:

“Oh my God!”
“You’re here alone??”
“Wow, you’re so brave!”
“That’s badass!”

 

I laughed and posed for my picture. I thanked the girls and was ready to walk off, but I sensed our time together wasn’t quite over yet. I stepped aside as more tourists arrived for their photos, and the girls hurled questions at me about solo travel, intrigued by my adventure. I answered their questions as best I could.

It turned out they were a group from Michigan, travelling together after meeting at university. Their faces lit up with excitement, framed by blonde and auburn strands, wide smiles and comfy clothes. They were impressed that I’d taken my first solo trip at 18; I was impressed they’d pulled off a large group trip at such a young age. It was a sweet exchange before I wished them well and set off.

 

“Be safe!” they called, as we headed in different directions.

Cue The Chaos.

Just moments later, while exploring another part of the temple grounds, my graceful day took a turn. Wandering around, mesmerised by the architecture, I suddenly felt a pop on my foot – and my sandal nearly flew off.

 

“Crap!” I thought, realising it had broken.

 

I packed lots of older items for this trip, planning to travel light and buy new things along the way over my five-and-a-half weeks. Well… these sandals were clearly too old and ready for retirement.

 

Trying to style it out, I pushed the strap back in – no luck. If I’d been with friends, this would’ve just been a funny moment. But when you’re alone, your problem-solving skills need to be on point.

 

I shuffled to the side, chuckled quietly and kissed my teeth. Then improvised. I removed the hairband from my ponytail and slipped it over my foot and sandal to keep it in place.

 

Now what?

 

I looked for the nearest exit. I’d planned to walk back to the hotel—yeah, not happening. I made it outside and checked how much cash I had… not enough for a solo ride, considering how far away I was. Sigh. No nearby ATMs either (I’d checked that before leaving), and I knew I’d made a rookie error not bringing enough money.

 

Trying not to panic, I thought through my options.

 

I tried haggling with taxi drivers – no luck, the price was extortionate (which is why I walked in the first place). I tried walking again – comical. Then I checked the Bolt app one last time and saw motorbike taxis as an option. The only issue? I didn’t want to get on one!

Growing up, I’d always been cautious about whose motorbike I got on. And now I had to trust a stranger?! Ugh. But I had no choice. I pulled on my big girl pants and booked it.

 

He arrived and I climbed on. Boy, did I hold on tight. No helmet, just prayer.

 

As we pulled off – my heart in my mouth and brain on overdrive – I saw the American girls walking out of the temple.

 

“Oh my God! It’s Danielle on the bike!”

 

Bless them. They looked excited, tapping each other and pointing. It was hilarious – I was terrified. They shouted and waved at me,

“You’re so cool!”

 

Somehow, pride gave me the strength to release one hand for a quick wave and smile.

 

“Bye girls!!” I shouted as we headed for the junction. One arm gripped the driver’s waist, my thighs probably cutting off his circulation, and my toes squeezed the broken sandal for dear life to stop it flying off.

 

Hilarious.

Reflections

I have documented so many stories over the years. This one came from my time in Southeast Asia, where I started in Thailand before heading on to Singapore, Indonesia and the Philippines. Armed with my laptop and balancing work along the way, it turned out to be one of the best things I’ve ever done.

 

A friend once shared this quote with me: “Traveling – it leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller.” – Ibn Battuta

 

And I couldn’t agree more. Travel opens your eyes to beauty, teaches global understanding and fills you with inspiration along the way.

 

Solo travel can be amazing – but it’s not for everyone, and that’s completely okay. Being able to enjoy solo travel can depend on how well you’re organised and even your personality type! Some people love winging it and riding the highs and lows. Others (like me!) prefer to plan ahead, then relax during the journey. And some people may not enjoy solo travel at all – and that’s okay. I often say life is tailor made – one size does not fit all.

 

So before diving into the practical tips, I think it’s important to be realistic. If any of the following feels true for you, you might want to start small, or explore other ways of travelling that suit your style better.

Who I don’t recommend solo travel for:

– If you struggle to say no or lack assertiveness, often ending up in uncomfortable situations.

– If you wouldn’t describe yourself as particularly “street smart,” and you tend to assume the best in others, even at your own expense.

– If you deeply value sharing experiences with someone, and travel doesn’t feel the same alone.

– If spending time alone makes you anxious – e.g., sitting solo at a restaurant, or joining a tour as the only individual.

 

If this sounds like you but you’re still curious, try starting with a local trip or staycation – no need to jump into the deep end.

Who I do recommend solo travel for:

On the flip side, there are certain traits and situations that make solo travel especially fulfilling. You don’t have to be super adventurous or outgoing – but if you relate to any of the below, solo travel might just be your thing:

 

– You’re naturally curious and enjoy exploring at your own pace.

– You’re craving alone time or a change in perspective.

– You’re comfortable making decisions on your own (or want to get better at it).

– You enjoy personal growth and reflection through new experiences.

– You’re in a transition season – post-studies, post-breakup, new job, etc – and looking to reconnect with yourself.

– You want the freedom to build your own itinerary without compromise.

 

Even if you’re a little nervous (that’s normal!), these traits can help you thrive during solo trips. Start small if needed – but trust that confidence grows with every step.

In closing

So, what does it actually take to plan and enjoy a trip on your own? From budgeting and safety to booking tips and must-pack items, I’ve pulled together everything I’ve learned into a practical guide to help you feel confident on your own journey.

 

👉 Read Part 2 here: “Solo Travel: The Ultimate Guide for First-Time Adventurers”

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From Dream to Departure: Budget-Friendly Tips

Over the past few years, I’ve had a lot of people ask me about my travels – especially how I got started with solo travel.

Questions like: Where do I begin? How do I choose locations? And how much does it cost, really?

As travel prices continue to rise, I’ve also been asked about ways to cut costs – How do you avoid overpriced package holidays? How do you get more value for your money?

So, in this blog I’ll be sharing practical tips to help you get started- or give you new ideas beyond what you may already know.

Let’s start with some general travel advice.

Starting With the Basics

I’ve spoken to people who have dream destinations in mind but have never started research to form a rough budget.

Others often rely on package holidays without realising how much they could save (or gain) by trying alternative methods.

And then there are those who dream of a complete change of routine – a hiatus! If that’s you, what kind of opportunities are actually out there?

Breaking Down Travel Costs

I remember telling people about my solo trip to Southeast Asia. Many assumed I was spending a fortune but when I broke down the actual costs, they were shocked.

 

Why? Because people had assumed the worst, without even checking.

 

Remember, don’t count yourself out of experiences because of a lack of information or a limited mindset – don’t cancel yourself out before you even try.

So, let’s explore a few foundational tips and tools to help bring those travel ideas to life. We’ll dive deeper into longer trips, solo travel and building itineraries in the next blog.

First Things First: Passport? Check. Visa? Check. Let's Go!

Let’s start with the basics – it may sound obvious, but it’s worth repeating because of the stories I’ve heard: keep your passport up to date and ready to go! In most cases, your passport should be valid for at least six months beyond the date you plan to enter your destination. This is a general guideline, so it’s always wise to check the specific entry requirements for your destination, either through the country’s embassy or reliable sources like the UK Foreign Office website, for those of us in the UK.

Be sure to allow enough time for any passport renewals before your trip, or be prepared to pay for expedited processing if you’re in a rush.

And one more important reminder: always check visa requirements for your destination, including for any countries you’ll transit through. Sometimes you’ll see a visa notice when booking flights on an airline’s website, but it’s still best to double-check through official channels.

Flight Search Tips

My favourite flight search engine: Skyscanner

It compares prices across a wide range of airlines and dates, so you can easily find the cheapest days to fly.

  • Always double-check the luggage allowance before you book. Flights these days often display a base price that excludes checked luggage. Once you add a bag, the cost increases – so don’t rush in without checking the details!

I also still check prices using the Google engine, just to see if more options are available.

Where to Stay: Accommodation Tools

My Top Picks:

  • Booking.com – Offers hotels, homestays (where you stay with locals), hostels and apartments. Regular users can access membership discounts. I sometimes cross-reference hotel reviews on TripAdvisor too.

  • Airbnb – Great for long stays or a more local experience. Be sure to select entire place if you prefer not to house-share. It’s easy to get caught out thinking you’ve snagged a bargain, only to realise it’s just a room in someone’s home. Double check the details!

Agoda and Google are further options, if you still want more choice.

Don’t Overlook Travel Agents

Travel agents can still play a valuable role – particularly for:

  • Finding package deals

  • Set up payment plans for solo or group trips

  • Tailoring travel experiences to your needs

(By the way, I’m now qualified as an independent travel agent and will be offering (limited) itinerary creation and travel booking services in future!)

Strawberry Hill, Jamaica - 2023

Budget Travel Tools

Kayak Explore
A useful feature that helps you discover destinations based on your budget and travel preferences. You can set a spending limit, departure airport and holiday type, and it shows you destinations that match. You can filter results by activities, season or language spoken. It’s also easy to share with friends or travel groups.

 

Kayak Best Time to Travel is a similar feature; if you already have a trip in mind, tap the details in to see when would be the best time to travel for a good price.

 

KayakUse the menu on the top left of the home screen to navigate to both tools.

Family Travel Ideas

Some UK airlines offer free kids’ places with package holidays – definitely worth checking before you book.

Typically, one child travels free per two paying adults and the deal includes:

  • Return flights

  • Transfers

  • Hotel stay

  • Checked baggage (23kg on selected trips)

  • Food & drink (depending on your board choice)

 

Checkout offers from TUI, EasyJet and Jet2 to name a few.

Look out for flash deals, too. In 2023, EasyJet launched a great initiative called Grans Go Free – encouraging three-generation holidays, by offering free places to grandparents. A friend of mine grabbed that one quickly! In 2024, Virgin Cruises offered a young adult place (18-26) to sail free with a parent. These deals are no longer available but it’s a great reminder to always check for deals before you book.

Travel Deal Newsletters

Subscribing to newsletters can help you catch flash deals, error fares, off-season rates, and destination inspiration. If you’re flexible with dates or location, this is a helpful tool. Personally, I don’t subscribe – I don’t need more temptation in my inbox! But it’s worth it if you’re ready to jump on a deal.

Newsletters to Check Out:

Bohol, Philippines - 2023

Unique & Affordable Travel Experiences

Looking for something a little different? Travel isn’t just about holidays – there are interesting experiences and cultural exchanges at lower costs too.

Workaway
A great platform connecting travellers with hosts worldwide who offer free accommodation and meals in exchange for help with various tasks. You could assist in a beach bar, hostel, house sitting, NGO or even farming. In 2018, I considered joining a project in Brazil for young women, but they had just filled their final volunteer spot when I applied. I also received offers from Puerto Rico and Costa Rica – mostly for beach bar work. You typically work a max of 5 hours per day, leaving plenty of time to explore or work on personal projects. It’s an affordable and purposeful way to travel for longer periods of time.

Race Across the World (UK)

One of the few shows I actually watch! Contestants race across countries on a limited budget – no flights or smartphones allowed. New applicants can apply each season. My mum keeps pushing me to apply with my brother and I’ve tried convincing my friend to do it too (but none of us can be convinced lol). Either way, it’s a fun and adventurous challenge if you’re up for it.

 

• Visa Opportunities

From Golden Visas (aimed at large property investors and entrepreneurs) to Digital Nomad Visas, more countries are offering longer-term stay options. The Digital Nomad Visa is a great opportunity to explore; there are now 40+ countries where you can live and work remotely, with tax exemptions on foreign income. Some countries have income requirements, others don’t. Options exist in Asia, Africa, the Caribbean and Europe – check this article for a comprehensive list: Digital Nomad Visas for Remote Work: The Complete 2025 List

Right, that’s part 1! We’ll cover itinerary planning and a whole bunch of solo travel tips in the next post.

In the meantime, thanks for reading – and happy planning.

D xo